Repost - b/c it does help.  Even when life isn't fair.  And you realize that the world is full of scumbag, dirtbags who will steal your minivan full of your 4 week old's baby gear and never look back.  I honestly don't know how someone could do that.  But as a friend said (paraphrasing here)- the world is full of horrible people.  but you have to remember that there are just as many good people in it too. - thanks Patricia

See the Glass as Already Broken 

(and Everything Else Too)

This is a Buddhist teaching that I learned...

The essence of this teaching is that all of life is in a constant state of change.  Everything has a beginning and everything has an end.  Every tree begins with a seed and will eventually transform back to earth.  Every rock is formed and every rock will eventually vanish.  In our modern world, this means that every car, every machine, every piece of clothing is created and all will wear out and crumble; it's only a matter of when.  Our bodies are born and they will die.  A glass is created and will eventually break.  

There is peace to be found in this teaching.  When you expect something to break, you're not surprised or disappointed when it does.  Instead of becoming immobilized when something is destroyed, you feel grateful for the time you have had. 

The easiest place to start is with the simple things, a glass of water, for example.  Pull out your favorite drinking glass . Take a moment to look at and appreciate its beauty and all it does for you.  Now, imagine that same glass as already broken, shattered all over the floor.  Try to maintain the perspective that, in time, everything disintegrates and returns to its initial form.

Obviously, no one wants their favorite drinking glass, or anything else, to be broken [or stolen].  This philosophy is not a prescription for becoming passive or apathetic, but for making peace with the way things are.  When your drinking glass does break, this philosophy allows you to maintain your perspective.  Rather than thinking, "Oh my God," you'll find yourself thinking, "Ah, there it goes."  Play with this awareness and you'll find yourself not only keeping your cool but appreciating life like never before.  

Written by:  Richard Carlson, Ph.D

- From Don't Sweat the Small Stuff...and it's all small stuff.